Of course not.
People make mistakes. Expecting them not to is setting yourself up for failure and cheating is the top three mistakes that humans make and just because someone made a mistake doesn’t mean you stop loving them or that they have stopped loving you.
(Plus cheating does not equate to the person not loving you.)
However, you need to understand that the decision you make should be what is best for you and your happiness, not those around you and certainly not your cheating spouse.
We recently saw Cardi B and Offset go through a very public breakup in December and as usual everyone was up in arms (and rightfully so because offset really is on some on bullshit – but I digress) however what I saw were a lot of celebrity men coming out to join the “cardi take me back” party offset was throwing himself;
And oh lord did that get women riled up. Again and rightfully so.
I know Cardi will be taking offset back it’s just a matter of when and I know many women reading this have been cardi or are currently cardi.
Don’t worry you aren’t stupid for taking him back you are just in love (or maybe it’s self-esteem but that’s for another conversation)
But as i mentioned above if you are taking back a cheating spouse MAKE SURE IT IS FOR YOU!!!
If you are feeling pressured to take someone back – remove all the factors pressuring you even it means blocking people and protecting your own sanity – Then do exactly that. Don’t let anybody bully you into doing something that you don’t feel comfortable and if you do take them back the same rule applies do not let anyone belittle you for your choices.
It’s your life. You are the driver. Remember that.
Till My Next Opinion….